Testimonials

I came to Brian at the start of my divorce with many questions and a lot of uncertainty. From our first conversation, he was gracious, honest, and incredibly reassuring — answering my questions clearly and helping me understand the best way forward. Throughout the process, Brian prioritized my goals, especially my desire to avoid court and keep costs reasonable, and skillfully guided me through mediation to a fair resolution. He was consistently responsive, thoughtful, and attentive to minimizing legal expenses. Most of all, his calm and steady presence repeatedly eased my anxiety during a very difficult time. I’m truly grateful for his support and would recommend him to friends and family.

Brian took over a case after my first lawyer spent years running up a bill because my ex was willing to do the same. He stepped in with clarity and re-focused everyone for the best possible outcome. Divorce is a horrible experience, but unlike most lawyers I encountered, Brian will not take advantage of your emotions or spend your money uselessly, and he is a very straight shooter.

I worked with Brian Cook for my recent divorce and had a really positive experience from start to finish. He was professional, straightforward, and easy to communicate with, which made a very challenging time feel a lot more manageable. Brian was always clear about what to expect, answered my questions promptly, and handled everything with a calm, confident approach that helped me feel supported throughout the process. I especially appreciated that he was accessible and responsive without making me feel like I was being billed for every quick question or message — that kind of fairness and transparency goes a long way. On top of all that, he was genuinely friendly and personable, which made a big difference during such a tough time. I’d highly recommend him to anyone looking for a reliable, thoughtful, and level-headed attorney.

Working with my divorce lawyer was truly a relief during a difficult time. He was professional, empathetic, and always had my best interests at heart. Thanks to his guidance and expertise, I was able to navigate the process with confidence and come out stronger on the other side.

I have worked with Brian over a 3-year period on a difficult spousal support case. Each time we went to court Brian was fully prepared and very professional. The outcome of the case was that I was paid over a decade of back support plus he argued and won attorney fees to be paid by my ex. I highly recommend Brian to negotiate your case and if needed represent you in the court system. Going to court can be stressful and intimidating but I felt fully prepared each time. You will find him to be quick to understand and analyze your needs . He will explain your options so you can feel confident moving forward with your case. You will be in good hands with Brian.

I hired Brian Cook to help me through a tricky contested divorce here in San Diego, where Brian was there for me for the whole of the journey. He was honest, upfront, and a no-nonsense lawyer throughout this divorce. Brian navigated me through a range of emotional issues as well as steering me through how things work here in San Diego and California. My divorce involved property division and child sharing arrangements and support. Through his careful negotiations and good strategy, I was able to keep my house and keep 50% custody time with my son. Not everything felt like a win at the time, but by the end things played out well and fairly. In the end we were able to mediate and not have to be dragged through the court system.

I had the privilege of working with Brian during a very challenging time in my life, and I enthusiastically recommend him without reservation. His professionalism, expertise, and genuine care for my case was purely evident from the beginning. He took the time to explain every step of the process, made sure I understood my options, and fought tirelessly to ensure the best outcome. Brian is not just an outstanding lawyer but also an empathetic advocate who truly cares about his clients. I am incredibly grateful for his dedication and support and would 10/10 definitely recommend him to anyone in need of a family lawyer.

When I decided the best decision for my future was divorcing my wife, due to her long-term unfaithfulness, I was at a loss where to turn. Another attorney recommended I call Brian Cook and meet with him. The first meeting was casual over a cup of coffee in Little Italy. I found a person who seemed to take a genuine interest in my situation, and without judgment offered me different options. I soon began to trust Brian’s feedback more as I discovered he seemed to have my best in mind, and always offered me options. I found him relatable, versed in the law, easy to talk with about very sensitive hurtful matters. His advice and care guided me through a tumultuous experience and accomplished a better outcome than I anticipated. I cannot say enough good things about Brian’s skillset as an attorney, his access by phone or email or person, and always aiming for my best outcome.

Going through a divorce is never easy, but mine presented unique and incredibly difficult challenges. I felt lost and overwhelmed, unsure how I could possibly navigate the complex legal and emotional landscape ahead. Thankfully, I found Brian Cook. From our first meeting, Brian made me feel safe and supported. He instilled a sense of confidence that I desperately needed, empowering me to face a situation I thought was insurmountable. Brian’s professionalism was evident in every interaction. He was meticulous in his preparation and clear in his communication, ensuring I understood every step of the process. What truly set Brian apart was his ability to balance his professional expertise with genuine empathy. He demonstrated a rare understanding of the emotional toll a divorce takes, and even while advocating strongly for my rights, he maintained a sense of fairness and empathy for all parties involved. Brian didn’t just represent me legally; he guided me through one of the most challenging periods of my life. I am profoundly grateful for his expertise, his compassion, and his unwavering support. If you’re facing a difficult divorce and need a lawyer who will not only fight for you but also treat you with respect and understanding, I wholeheartedly recommend Brian Cook.

Brian was referred to me by a friend. At first, I was hesitant to hire a lawyer. I considered myself a smart man with a straightforward case. I believed my sonʼs mother and I could work things out rationally with a mediator and save money. However, after nine months of back-and-forth, I realized I was mistaken. Communication between my sonʼs mother and me had always been difficult, even during our marriage. It was naive to think that divorce would somehow improve things. Brian truly excelled during the two years it took to resolve my case. My friendʼs recommendation was right on the mark. What impressed me most about Brian was his objective approach. He avoided unnecessary actions and proceeded with caution, allowing my sonʼs motherʼs actions to speak for themselves. When I felt overwhelmed, Brian listened, presented clear options, and offered his recommendations. I always felt in control, but with the guidance of someone who had traveled this road before. Since my case concluded, Iʼve referred two colleagues to him. Although I thought my case was simple, my sonʼs motherʼs behavior made legal help necessary. Brian was outstanding. Itʼs been a year since the paperwork was filed, my divorce is final, my son is thriving, and Iʼm moving forward with my life. Brian helped me get here, and I believe he can help you too.

Going through a divorce with small children was the most stressful experience of my entire life. I didn’t want to incur a huge legal financial burden on top of this already horrific experience. Brian helped me navigate my mediation and divorce, he was instrumental in getting this finalized quickly. I had numerous questions and scenarios to discuss with him and he was always available for a call, easing my anxiety and setting up a plan that was strategic and clear. He offered numerous resources for me, and quite honestly, talked me off the ledge a few times. His approach was reasonable and efficient. He’s a straight shooter who approaches high conflict with a reasonable and calm approach. Our goal was to stay out of court, which we did. I would recommend Brian to anyone looking for a reasonable, affordable and effective approach to navigating a divorce.

In an emotionally charged high conflict divorce the difference between a fair settlement and child custody or the exact opposite may rely entirely upon your legal representation. My character, finances and interpersonal relationships were all threatened by my ex’s decision to make a loud & expensive conscience uncoupling. Brian proved his knowledge, experience and professionalism were truly not ordinary as he represented me and my interests. That said, the more memorable compliment about Brian was sourced from my ex… “Where did you find that guy?”

It’s not easy navigating divorce with teenage children. Brian was instrumental in helping reach a good outcome for me and my family. He listened and respected my goals and priorities, developed a strategy to avoid costly litigation, and showed patience by going at the pace that worked for me in reaching those goals. My family is better off due to his help.

It is impossible to overstate the extraordinary impact Brian had on facilitating my divorce. He was overwhelmingly accessible, knowledgeable and extraordinarily professional throughout the pendency of my case. He answered all of my questions, counseled me regarding best- and worst-case scenarios, and enabled me to wrap up my complex divorce swiftly. Brian is a fearless advocate that brings a wealth of experience to the table, and I am eternally grateful for all that he did on my behalf. I would recommend Brian without hesitation or reservation; he was an invaluable ally during one of the more challenging periods of my life, and I will certainly seek his counsel on any and all family law matters I confront in the future.

Working with Brian was a pleasure. Early on in my divorce, my family law attorney suggested we bring in some help. I reached out to a respected attorney and friend in town who recommended Brian. Unlike a lot of people, Brian under promised and over delivered. It took Brian very little time to get up to speed on a very complicated case with multiple issues and large holdings. It took me very little time to get comfortable with Brian. We met and spoke hundreds of times throughout the process. We engaged experts, met with them and I watched Brian help them understand a complicated financial situation with lots of moving parts. It was very comforting for me, as we worked through the process, that Brian kept track of all the moving parts. He explained things to me in a manner that helped me understand. We were in trial many times and every time Brian was over prepared. On more than one occasion, he was successful in helping the Judge see our prospective versus the angle opposing counsel was arguing. He also helped me be grounded when I was pushing too hard for the unrealistic. Working with Brian was a pleasure and I highly recommend him.

I did not want my divorce to be expensive or litigious as I had heard horror stories of such divorces. I was committed to finding a lawyer that was focused on resolving my case as quickly, efficiently and cost-effectively as possible. In my search, I was referred to Brian Cook. After speaking with him for the first time, I knew he would be perfect, and I was absolutely correct. The process was painless and took the exact amount of time he promised. While I hope to never go through a divorce again, if I do, I will be calling Brian.

Brian truly cares about his clients. He is knowledgeable, ethical and takes action to do what he believes would be in the best interests of settling a case. Brian strives to minimize the costs and time expended to resolve a matter while at the same being very responsive.

After I engaged with Brian Cook, my divorce was very smooth with the minimum amount of drama. Prior to engaging Brian, my prior attorney was making my case look like a nightmare divorce as my spouse’s attorney got very aggressive. Then to my surprise, my prior attorney did the same and surmised that this was going to get expensive, drawn out and unpleasant. That’s when I contacted Brian. He had a very calm and intelligent approach to our divorce obstacles. This calmed the other side and issues and challenges began to dissipate and a path to an end became quickly clear. He wasn’t soft, just direct and had well thought out plans to get us to a conclusion. This zero-drama effect was instrumental to the best possible conclusion. In the end, this was a winning approach for both sides and we held firm to the law and didn’t draw out the timeline, which saved me lots of expenses.

My experience with Brian is that he’s an excellent family law attorney. He did a great job handling my divorce and is the opposite of an attorney who “stirs the pot.” Super responsive, easy to work with and very upfront and honest about things, even if it’s not what you’re hoping to hear. A skilled negotiator as well. I highly recommend him

Brian Cook has represented me and my continuing family law case for the past 2 years. He’s been priceless in guiding me to obtaining majority custody of my twin daughters (aged 6 when I sought Brian’s representation.) Brian knows what to focus on legally, as well as how to keep you grounded in what you may be seeking. He is knowledgeable, communicative, and a good listener. He’s always been current and on point with my case and never gave me the feeling he’s overwhelmed or unprepared.

Having had sub-par representation during my original divorce proceedings, it was a major coup for me to find an attorney of Brian’s caliber. My experience working with Brian was, simply put, effective and efficient. Brian dedicated a lot of effort into properly understanding my personal situation and then applied his experience and intellect to help guide me through a challenging process to achieve my ultimate goal. I have already recommended Brian to a close personal friend.